Today, a great deal of “gender theory” is abstracted from human experience. But if theory is not the crystallized resin of experience, it ceases to be a guide to action.
— Leslie Feinberg, Transgender Warriors
Who can explain us?
“Gender is biological,” they said. “You’re born a boy or girl, and that’s the end of it.”
They were wrong. Our bodies defy their rules. Our lives defy their prescriptions.
“Gender is socially constructed,” they said. “You’re made a man or woman, and that’s the end of it.”
They were wrong. We were told who we were. We were told through every possible channel. We were told by our parents, our teachers, and our televisions. We were told by our friends, our doctors and our governments.
They hadn’t figured on anyone telling back.
Therefore we are miracles. We are miracle workers. We are testament to the exact limits of the human mind.
What does the human know? Not grand Truths, nor the exact limits of every category. The human knows little truths, general trends, and meaningful exceptions.
The human, hopefully, knows him- or herself.